It’s OK to HISS

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Ahimsa
Practicing non-violence

Most of us would consider ourselves to be non-violent people, but did you consider that shame, guilt, resentment and even disappointment all have a seed of violence to them? When we can’t forgive ourselves, when we put all the responsibility of the world on our shoulders, we’re inflicting harm to ourselves. When we act and speak out of fear we are causing harm. When we gossip we’re acting out of accordance of ahimsa. If we leave fear and self-sabbatoge unchecked we can wreck havoc on our lives! Outward violence is simply the outward manifestation of inner turmoil and fear. Acting from a place of unconditional love and compassion for ourselves is the way we achieve ahimsa. If we choose to run, hide and make excuses for ourselves we continue to suffer.

Another side to ahimsa is one of protection. When I read this short story I learned a huge lesson in my own life. The story here was shared by Judith Lasater:

“There is a famous story about ahimsa told in the Vedas, the vast collection of ancient philosophical teachings from India. A certain sadhu, or wandering monk, would make a yearly circuit of villages in order to teach. One day as he entered a village he saw a large and menacing snake who was terrorizing the people. The sadhu spoke to the snake and taught him about ahimsa. The following year when the sadhu made his visit to the village, he again saw the snake. How changed he was. This once magnificent creature was skinny and bruised. The sadhu asked the snake what had happened. He replied that he had taken the teaching of ahimsa to heart and had stopped terrorizing the village. But because he was no longer menacing, the children now threw rocks and taunted him, and he was afraid to leave his hiding place to hunt. The sadhu shook his head. “I did advise against violence,” he said to the snake, “but I never told you not to hiss.”

“Protecting ourselves and others does not violate ahimsa. Practicing ahimsa means we take responsibility for our own harmful behavior and attempt to stop the harm caused by others. Being neutral is not the point. Practicing true ahimsa springs from the clear intention to act with clarity and love.” -Judith Lasater

My kindness has been taken advantage of more times than I’d like to admit and I have also received unjust shaming for innocent mistakes. I have spent nights beating myself up, succumbing to self-sabbatoge, but this story changed the direction of my thinking so much. We all make mistakes, we misread people and situations, we are human beings. We do things we’re sorry for, but if we are coming from a place of truth and good intentions, without the intent to harm, we can go easier on ourselves. We can also create better boundaries for ourselves when we understand ahimsa, and in doing so, we can protect our hearts and souls. We can create a hiss. Being kind and loving does not mean we are weak and vulnerable. It’s the exact opposite. It means we love ourselves and we will protect ourselves and others in order to honor this place in us.

Our yoga practice offers a great place to meet our truths so we can begin the act of acceptance. Moving through our practice without force and honoring our limitations helps us nurture the body and the mind so we can become gentler and more at ease in all aspects of our lives. It’s about living authentically.

With Love,
Julie

Back-to-School Tummy Troubles

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The beginning of a new school year can be a rough transition for many kids. Adjusting to new teachers, routines and workloads can take their toll, even on the littlest student. As parents, it’s rough watching our kids suffer, particularly since we remember being the same age, feeling the same way.

Anxiety can show up in children much the same way as in adults. Kids will complain of  tummy troubles, they might even experience vomiting, diarrhea, headaches and insomnia. Every day they might have different symptoms. When the nervous system is taxed, the body responds by trying to get our attention.

Our autonomic nervous system has two parts-the sympathetic and the parasympathetic. The better know part, is called the sympathetic nervous system which is responsible for the”fight or flight” response. The lesser known part, the parasympathetic nervous system, is responsible for keeping the balance of the body systems and is know as the “rest and digest”response.  Stress typically shows up in the weakest part of the body first, often moving around the body or showing up as a different ailment with every episode of anxiety. This can be confusing and frustrating.

I’ve put together a few tips and resources to help you teach some breathing techniques to your child. Breath work is the fasted and easiest way to calm the nervous system. Kids love to know they have a tool or two in their toolbox to use when they find themselves feeling uncomfortable and scared.

  • Identify Sensations-First, try having your child identify the physical unease they feel. See if they can articulate the distress they are having. Don’t ask them why they are feeling this way, simply stay with what they are feeling in their body. They need to be able to recognize the symptoms as they show up. You are teaching them not to be afraid of the sensations and showing them that they have control over their body when they are anxious.
  • Tense and Release– this is systematic way to move through the body to let go of tension and relax the body. Here is a fun video to watch and practice together.
  • Deep Belly Breathing. Sounds easy, but kids need some help differentiating between their upper lungs, where shallow, short breath induces anxiety, and breathing completely with their diaphragm. Showing them how lengthening the exhale will calm them almost immediately will give you a good practice to use in the coming weeks. Many kids have had yoga in school, ask if they can share what breathing exercises they remember and practice those or share this little video with them.

Hang in there, parents! I’ve been there. I hope these little tips are a good start to comforting your child.

I am now offering private sessions focused on breathing techniques for children dealing with anxiety. Please call me to schedule an appointment at 216-501-1465.

Remember, this too shall pass.

 

 

Julie Konrad is not a doctor, just a mom with three kids, who has experience working with hundreds of kids through her yoga teaching and once being a child with clinical anxiety herself. This works!

 

Celebrate Summer Solstice!

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Summer arrives in Cleveland, Oh this Sunday, June 21st at 12:39 pm! Plus, it’s Father’s Day a great day to celebrate. Summer Solstice is one of my favorite times of the year. The weather is finally warm, my garden is green and budding with fruit and veggies, and it’s a time when being outdoors hiking, kayaking and rock hopping in the river with my family become choice activities.

So, what exactly is Summer Solstice? The word solstice is made up of two Latin words “sol” meaning sun and “sistere” meaning to stand still. Summer Solstice occurs in the Northern Hemisphere when the Earth’s axis is tilted closest to the sun. It is also the longest day of the year. Even though summer arrives on this day, sometimes you’ll hear it described as midsummer. This is because European farmers considered June 21st midsummer for the growing season. I’ve read many interesting articles about Summer Solstice celebrations including; traditions from the ancient Celts crowning of the Oak King, to ancient Pagans and their midsummer night’s bonfires and love magic, to Wicca’s healing rituals, and of course, Prehistoric Europe’s building of Stonehenge. It’s fascinating! You can find more information about summer solstice celebrations HERE.

Now that you know a little more about The Solstice, go build a bonfire (if you have a safe place to do so) or simply fire-up the grill, cook your favorite foods, gather flowers from your yard to decorate your home or table, and then, sit back and read one of Shakespeare’s most famous comedies, A Midsummer Night’s Dream! It’s a wonderful time to enjoy the season with friends and family!

Activities for Kids

1) Make a nature mandala

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2) Go out on a nature walk/hike and find treasures to display at home, light a few candles and have each member of the family say what they would like to do together this summer.

3) Make Paper Lanterns

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4) Fairy Glow Jars

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5) Practice 108 Sun Salutes!

Happy Solstice! Enjoy the Light!

Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth. -Hindu Prince Gautama Siddharta, the founder of Buddhism

Have We Become Too Mindful About What We Eat?

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I used to enjoy eating. It was virtually effortless: open fridge, grab food, take a bite. Nowadays, every time I open my refrigerator or pantry, a loud internal debate ensues – over the sugar content, nutrient value or inflammatory risk of all my possible choices. The crazy thing is that these items were already vetted by me at the store. I bought local and organic where possible, and spent what felt like hours carefully scrutinizing labels. So, why the debate? Why am I questioning my choices? And, why do I feel like I never have anything to eat?

In January, Mary Elizabeth Williamson wrote an eye-opening article in salon.com that resonated with me. It was called, “We’re Clean Eating Our Way to New Eating Disorders”, and in it she discusses a word I had never heard before, orthorexia. She references writer Heather Hansman, who explains that orthorexia differs from other eating disorders in that the obsessive focus is not on how much or how little one consumes, but the perceived virtue of the food itself. Williamson also quotes an article written last summer by popular health and food blogger Jordan Younger, who made headlines when she announced that she was, “transitioning away from veganism” as she realized that she had, “started fearing a LOT of things when it came to food,” and had been struggling with orthorexia. I couldn’t believe there was a word for what I recognized was a developing problem for me and my friends.

I decided to start a discussion about orthorexia with friends and students at the yoga studio where I teach. Almost everyone I spoke with admitted to worrying a lot about their “healthy choices”. They were concerned about consuming too much of this and too little of that. Are they getting enough vitamins and are those vitamins being properly absorbed? What should they feed their kids? I know people avoiding food almost altogether out of fear. We’re all just trying to do the right thing. If you feel you can’t eat the food or drink the water, that not only affects your health, it affects your happiness and your experience of living. One friend admitted that after becoming vegan she avoided going out to eat with friends because it was likely she wouldn’t be able to order anything at the restaurants they chose. She says it was a very lonely time.

I can’t open my newsfeed without being bombarded with articles warning of the dangers of eating what most of Americans would consider healthy foods – things like almonds and kale. I remember 20 years ago when fat was the enemy. Now fat is our friend and carbs are going to kill us. We have gone from whole grains to no grains. We are told to eat more fruits and vegetables, then we are warned they might be toxic. Wait! Is that blueberry you’re about to put in your mouth, organic?

I am married to an environmental scientist. We often have discussions about the dangers in our food. Recently, I told him I read that kale can be toxic and he replied, “Hmmm, that’s interesting…I haven’t heard of anyone dying from kale.” We like to measure risk. He reminds me that we are living in a time when regulations over food have never been higher, water has never been cleaner and manufacturers are held accountable for what they produce, how they produce it and what they leave behind on the land and in the air. I’m reassured when he points out how fortunate we are to live in the time and place we do. The CDC reports that Americans are living longer than ever before, the average age for women is now 81.2 years and men is 76.4 years; and in the last 12 years there has been a 15.7% drop in overall mortality. So why are we so freaked out about our food? I hear the kickback as I type this, GMO’s, pollution, global warming, but who do we believe?

There is so much information available to us, and it is often contradictory. You can find a study to support almost anything. There is always a new trend, often negating the previous one. It is overwhelming. But, maybe we already know what works for us. The bombardment of media and access to information has taken a front seat and we have lost our gift of intuition and one of our basic human abilities – to think logically. Our natural instincts are whispering somewhere behind all the noise, but we have stopped listening.

The smarter we get, the more disconnected we’re becoming from ourselves. Many of us know moderation in all things to be true. We’ve experienced overindulgence and we’ve learned our lessons. Aristotle made this point back around 330 B.C. He taught that the keys to a happy life are balance and moderation. In yoga, we learn the tenet of moderation in the eightfold path. How do we get that balance back? Would we rather believe a stranger than rely on our personal experience? We need to listen to our bodies and eat what feels right for us. My aforementioned vegan friend chose veganism for ethical reasons. She says it is what is right for her soul, and no study will convince her otherwise.

Maybe, instead of reading the latest study, you can remember that the last time you ate chocolate after 3PM, you couldn’t sleep. Or, too much broccoli gives you gas. Or, depriving yourself of dessert makes you depressed. What works for someone else, may not work for you. Just because giving up gluten changed your mom’s life, does not mean it will change yours. I have friends who thrive on raw vegetables, I digest them better when they’re cooked. We each need to listen to our own body, and encourage our friends to do the same.

When you begin to pay attention to your body and what it needs, craves and enjoys, you will gain balance in your life. Then, you can read studies and listen to other people’s experiences all you want – with interest – but also with a grain of [iodized] salt. (Or, Himalayan salt, if that works better for you!)

And, remember, even the gods had nectar.

No School Means Family Yoga Tomorrow!

 

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Please join me February 12th from 9:30am-10:45:am. All ages welcome. This will be a fun, casual session where parents can share the benefits and magic of this amazing practice with their kiddos. Stay for hot chocolate and tea after class.

$10 adults
$5 Kids
Pass holders: one card punch and one child free.
RSVP’S recommended as this class may fill up. Please call 216-501-1465 and leave your name contact info. and number of spaces needed and I will confirm with you.

Don’t miss the FUN right here in the neighborhood!

~Julie

 

 

Celebrate Winter Solstice

 

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Winter Solstice Arrives in Cleveland on Monday, December 21nd at 11:49AM EST in Cleveland, OH 

Winter Solstice marks the shortest day of the year in the Northern Hemisphere, and from this day, until the summer solstice in June, the daylight hours increase each day. In ancient times, people held huge celebrations to welcome the light, it also marks the first day of Winter.

The Winter Solstice is a wonderful time to celebrate the season with your family! Consider making ice lanterns and line your driveway or front walk, make a yule log or visit your child’s classroom and share a story about the solstice (teachers love this!). There are countless ways to celebrate the return of the sun. Here are a few of my favorites. I hope you enjoy!  Be sure to let me know your solstice traditions in the comments below! Let’s welcome the LIGHT together!

  • Make a wreath from evergreens (a symbol of the Solstice) collected by family members. On or after New Year’s Day, your wreath can be returned to Nature.
  • Make your family’s favorite food and/or a cake and put a sunshine on it.  Birthday candles can be put on the dessert. Each family member can light a candle and make a wish for the holiday season or the upcoming calendar year. Once all candles are lit, the family as a whole can blow them out to send wishes on their way. Then call out “Happy Solstice” or “Good Yule” in unison.
  • Ring a bell together to celebrate your connection with the cycles of Nature and to celebrate your connection with life on planet Earth and all of Nature.
  • Light a candle (also a symbol of the Solstice) and talk about what the Solstice means. Ask family members to focus on a candle, and then extinguish. Sit in darkness for a few moments and reflect on the importance of light and of Sun to life on the planet.
  • Feed the birds! Take your family outdoors during the Winter at this Solstice time. Focus on being part of the fabric of life of Nature. Then express appreciation for the beauty of Nature. Each family member then takes a handful of seeds and focuses on the seeds as symbols of life and as messengers of goodwill toward other parts of Nature and then places the seeds in a feeder or grass. Enjoy the light!!!!

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Back to the Mat Yogis!

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Welcome Back to Yoga Class!

Like most of you, I have been in the whirlwind of back-to-school transition. Rushing to get in a few more fun, family outings and finishing up school shopping while wrapping my brain around the idea of my youngest beginning kindergarten and my own new found freedom. What a journey we are on!

The break from teaching just a couple weeks of classes has been nourishing. I am rested and ready for my yogis to return! I’ve missed you.

You can look forward to our usual Tues./ Thurs. 9:30-10:45am classes as well as THURSDAY EVENINGS from 6:45-8:00pm. Class passes remain $75 for 6-classes or $14 drop in.

Remember to invite new friends and neighbors-their first class is complimentary. Also, please be sure to sign-up on the homepage for email notifications if you are not receiving them. I’ve switched to a new format.

Monthly Family Yoga returns on October 5th at 3pm-4pm. This is such a fun way to connect and bond with your family.

And most importantly, I want to thank you for your patronage and continued support. I feel  so grateful to be able to offer yoga in my neighborhood for my neighborhood and have you all to practice with each week.

See you next week!
Julie

“True yoga is not about the shape of your body, but the shape of your life. Yoga is not to be performed; yoga is to be lived. Yoga doesn’t care about what you have been; yoga cares about the person you are becoming. Yoga is designed for a vast and profound purpose, and for it to be truly called yoga, its essence must be embodied.” — Aadil Palkhivala

 

 

Complete Restore Classes start 5/29 6:45pm

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Thursday Evenings from 6:45pm-8:00pm.

No class on June 19th. Click here for address and info.

This class is for anyone who feels exhausted, overwhelmed, stressed or just needs some self-care. Class is divided into three parts:
1) Opening Asana 30 min. – to open and stretch the body
2) 15 min. Meditation
3) 15 min. Long Deep Stretches (Yin Style)
4) 15 min. Savasana (Relaxation)

Please bring an eye pillow if you have one.
I look forward to guiding you.

Namaste,
Julie